真性情

有些人會好用心了解自已。哪些人是那種人?心照啦。
哪些人如果能看到自已表面的特點以外的真性情，也真夠難得。

我最常聽到的是「慢熱」，有人說過我hea、單純、硬頸 (有原則)、容易緊張...

玩可以玩好癲，如果去玩都要拘謹，就不要出來吧。
而交友時，總要在認識的親友面前，才能敞開心扉，這也算慢熱嗎？也許在這速食的世代，這算慢了，but i don't care，因為我硬頸( ! )，我的人生也不需為別人的價值觀而活。

說我 hea 也不錯，因為我不喜歡規矩、約束，
想做就做，想講就講，不想做的也迫不到我做，
我不控制別人，也不想別人干涉我，大家尊重對方，給予自由度最好。
例如之前同Simpson討論教書，他表明不會教不聽話的學生，因為講左他們也不會聽；我覺得，如果要一班一味只聽我講的學生，我不是在教他，是在控制他們，同時，我在同化他們，沒殺了他們各自獨特的潛能。
後話：Simpson還反駁他就是喜歡controlling，因為control Ling (me)，真的想打他。

子彭曾說過，自由意志不是想點就可以點，是可以選擇不想點就可以拒絕。
以前拒絕人真的好絕，，只顧自已感受，想盡快設身事外，今天我還沒被神擊殺，也真是恩典。
日積月累，也學會如何有禮貌點地拒絕，唉，但依然覺得煩。

foto

Haven't recorded the recent photos here. Most are uploaded on Instagram.

2nd day of CNY. Visit Siu Chi and Matthew's home. 用賤招抽利是

Visit the cutie dinos in Science Museum. omg... I wanna visit them again.

 Choking k-pop pose at Milky and Mike's wedding at 香港佑寧堂.

Many weddings at year-end. This was Mei and Kei's wedding.

Also many cycling in 2013. Riding happily with Mr Tall.

 擺地攤 at 10-12pm at Shum Shui Po to selling the 2nd clothes.

Ms C and Ms T are my friends even we are not working together now.

 War game with David and Johnathan's fellowship.

How relaxing it is just sitting on the lawn, watching the kites flying on the sky, having some snack with friends. Happiness is simple. Let's not making the life more complicated.

I fed up with 「女大十八變」lor. In my eyes, I'm still me. 

Anyway, what a pleasure to have your friends' mothers to adore you as a beauty, right? especially I'm still 箍牙ing. haha

Gathering with school buddies and shooting with the same pose which we had in high school.

A gals night out with cheese fondue at Swiss Chalet. Everyone smelled badly after the supper :P

Keep carrying the essential stuff only when hanging out care-freely around.
I wonder, how long will the 'clutch' trend last? It's been couple of years la.
Btw it's only Jan, a very warm Jan thought, Forever 21 is selling the spring and summer clothes.