A few updates again

one day my friend (柯柯) i met in Taiwan trip recommended this book to us, 來自天堂的66封情書.
don't ever think it is a book about couples. "that number, 66, makes you recall anything?" i asked my friends. most of the answers are 'evil'. it's 66 chapters. 
introduction of the book from internet:

你每年都立定目標要一年內讀完聖經，但是往往舊約還未讀完就舉手投降？你是否覺得上帝寫下66卷咬文嚼字、厚如磚塊的書，閱讀起來並不容易？每個古老的故事間似乎毫無關聯，如同六十六片拼圖，無法拼湊成一幅圖畫窺看全貌。哈該和腓利門有什麼關係？上帝為什麼要寫創世記呢？羅馬書的內容冗長無趣，到底要表達什麼呢？我們心中帶著許多的問號，無法完全瞭解整本聖經。

　　或是你以為基督教只是可以讓人心靈得慰藉的宗教，能夠滿足內在最深層的渴望？你不禁問：「我想要成為什麼樣的人？身處於人生的混亂中，我希望我的孩子、朋友、上帝如何看待我？對我而言，什麼是最重要的？我的人生現在要怎麼過？我內心是否還有足夠的熱情，讓我能為理想堅持下去？有了天堂的盼望，對我的態度和選擇有什麼影響？」不確定感和掙扎時常攪擾我們，因為我們從未真正理解上帝的話語。

　　我們問：「上帝在我生命中扮演什麼角色？」
　　真正問題應該是：「我的短暫人生，要在上帝愛的故事中，扮演什麼角色？」──萊特博士Christopher J. H. Wright
　　
　　聖經每一部書的存在都有其必要性，當我們對這六十六部書的內容瞭解越多，體會越深，就能更清楚說書人的心意，也更能活出自己的故事；如果我們清楚故事情節，在扮演角色的時候就能得心應手。

　　賴瑞克萊布博士寫這本書的主要目的是，希望幫助你看見六十六片拼圖拼出來的美麗圖畫，讓我們都能更清楚地看見每一片拼圖的獨特顏色和結構。當你將所有故事串聯起來，會明白你所聽到的，是一則最美的愛情故事；你會驚訝地發現，不管你是否對人生感到懷疑、失望或覺得生活多麼不幸，你都會拿起聖經回到上帝的面前，重新找到盼望。

　　這本書，用最精煉的文字、最精簡的內容，將六十六片拼圖拼湊完成，把每一封情書摘要成六十六段扼要的短文，讓每位讀者感受到上帝所述說的愛情故事，充滿何等令人讚嘆的驚奇。這是前所未有的一個故事，一個充滿愛的故事，而我們都活在這個故事裡面。

I'm reading it slowly, because i need to taste the love thoroughly and deeply. it's worthy ready every night.

that cute and fat Sally was given by my colleague, yin yin. 

I love germany. However i only watched their final match. I was so excited to be a witness of their champion and first European team to won in Africa, even I woke up at 3am. 

Since I came back from Taiwan trip, I slept around 10pm every night as I'm so tired. This makes me wake up early in the morning. An expected benefit is the real silent morning moment. I read, surfing my fingers on my phone, pray and hea on my bed freely before the time to wake up. The beat of life tones to a slower one, my temper becomes better. I go to workplace before 9 everyday, whilst I arrived around 9:20 before.

I was sick last month. My mami accompanied me to see a doctor to do some checking. Luckily nothing serious. 

after the checking, we passed by our first home in 大角咀. It's now an old blue building. Mami held my hand and told a lot of story about the old days we had there. 

Mr Tall in Causeway Bay :)

i really like the length of my hair look like in this pic.

When I heard some friends said my hair is much longer now, i didn't aware how long it is. My hair and I live together, how can i recognize its growth? Perhaps, it's similar to our growth in life. One day we look back, we will see we grow up and not like that anymore. the changes happen bit by bit, step by step. No rush, God has his plan and timing. 

Just a little record of my team.

and some more record of my new hell seat. Since i need to handle 2 different systems for additional clients, my wonderful head got a new computer and a new seat to place them all together. I really hate my new place. too open, no privacy and very busy now!

My Mariemekko converse and Mariemekko doggie at Element:) 

That time I was still sick and only had 95lbs. Thanks God that i gained some more weight now. Hopefully no need to consult the doctor 6 mths later~~

29 ways to stay creative

links: here

巨峰提子蛋糕、新髮型

very cute looking cake with far taste.

Look forward to be in university again XD--Monster University
Btw I got a new haircut. Short bangs and cut at least 3 inches. 

Braids

I like braids recently.
Recently, my hair is long and sufficient to make braids. 
Although my hands are not good at tied braids, these styles are very nice. 

Retreat, After Earth, Shin Ting, 小人國4

12 Jun 2013

Glad to have a break in the mid of the week. 
Retreat is always an efficient way to re-charge.
I love all my XXL groupmates.

The only reason for watching 'After Earth' is Will Smith, the gorgeous black guy on earth.
Turn out it's not bad, at least it made me scared for some moment.

15 Jun 2013

I miss you already Shin Ting. You are my godness and my model in all times. 
You guide my life during my ups and downs. I wish I will never forget what you taught us. 
I hope I can be as wise, intelligent, kind and inspiring as you.

16 Jun 2013

First kick-off meeting for our trip in Sept.

The decoration of Initial (Shatin store) is lovely and stylish.
Like all deer stuff :)

My first drama experience with Ching.
What a good start to have 小人國4 as my first drama. Look forward to watch much more in the future.

50 Rules for Dads of Daughters

50 Rules for Dads of Daughters

This is a nice article. 

A Daddy's Letter to His Little Girl

A very touching article that make me almost in tears.

A Daddy's Letter to His Little Girl (About Her Future Husband)

Dear Cutie-Pie,

Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was "How to keep him interested."

It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.

And I got angry.

Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to "keep him interested."

Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul -- in that unshakeable place that isn't rattled by rejection and loss and ego -- that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)

If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.

Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn't need to be keptinterested, because he knows you are interesting:

I don't care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table -- as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can't stop looking.

I don't care if he can't play a bit of golf with me -- as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.

I don't care if he doesn't follow his wallet -- as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.

I don't care if he is strong -- as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.

I couldn't care less how he votes -- as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.

I don't care about the color of his skin -- as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.

I don't care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion -- as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.

In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:

You.

Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to "keep him interested" is to be you.

Your eternally interested guy,

Daddy

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This post is, of course, dedicated to my daughter, my Cutie-Pie. But I also want to dedicate it beyond her.

I wrote it for my wife, who has courageously held on to her sense of worth and has always held me accountable to being that kind of "boy."

I wrote it for every grown woman I have met inside and outside of my therapy office -- the women who have never known this voice of a Daddy.

And I wrote it for the generation of boys-becoming-men who need to be reminded of what is really important -- my little girl finding a loving, lifelong companion is dependent upon at least one of you figuring this out. I'm praying for you.

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進擊的巨人

上一套追看的動畫，已是鋼之鍊金術師，還是hunter?
進擊的巨人漫畫還在連載中，動畫只出到第八集，每集20分鐘，劇情緊湊，
第一次看完，我緊張到發惡夢，實在太好看太刺激了！

Plastic duck

'ho duck yee ar'

I said several times when I met this plastic duck last night.

Watching it 浮下浮下 in the sea is very delighted. 

There are some little ducks around the huge duck too.

Photo diary

Facebook is a bit tiring for me now. Once off from work, better no touch with computer, or even iphone.

Not many of my friends use Instagram. However, I do like it.

Using photo as a diary record for sharing is better for now.

December, the end of a year.  

I love December because it's about Christmas time.

Happy Friday lunch at Outback. 

Got drunk in the festive music and lighting. 

November is the graduation season. 

mo liu snap at a stranger's backpack. That's what's man should do!

Durable HTC. it can still function as normal.

a hilarious book can cheer me up

音樂能洗腦

詩詞加上音樂，很容易聽得跟著哼，未必能唱整首歌，但總能哼出signature 的meloday。

薛凱琪的《此時此刻》很好聽

曲：鄧智偉
詞：林日曦
編：鄧智偉
監：鄧智偉

就在出走海邊的正午柔和日照的一刻就在
點點抑鬱的昨晚　連綿夜雨的一刻

多少天始終都獨個支撐等不到你替我撐起雨傘
只奢想此刻可為我分擔不敢想你吻向她的每晚

時代要一天天分薄你我未來難得一起時別要放開
谁愿意躋身於複雜裡精彩只想與你簡單相愛

就在爭取中高聲叫喊時局劇變的一刻
就在喘息間呼吸勇氣垂頭獨處的一刻

當天色始終都沒法猜測想身邊會有你分享每剎
當此刻一雙手被你緊握不想知你快要跟她進發

時代要一天天分薄你我未來難得一起時別要放開
谁愿意躋身於複雜裡精彩只想與你簡單相愛

時代裡太多恐懼太多悲劇要襲來難得擁緊時別再放開
無謂再分心於選擇里至少這一秒跟前是我
只求被愛單純是你單純是我單純

d公仔好得意！配上《Dumb ways to die》，忍不住一聽再聽

Set fire to your hair
Poke a stick at a grizzly bear
Eat medicines that’s out of date
Use your private parts as piranha bait

Dumb ways to die, so many dumb ways to die

Get your toast out with a fork
Do your own electrical work
Teach yourself how to fly
Eat a two week old unrefrigerated pie

Dumb ways to die, so many dumb ways to die

Invite a psycho-killer inside
Scratch your drug dealer’s brand new ride
Take your helmet off in outer space
Use your clothes dryer as a hiding place

Dumb ways to die, so many dumb ways to die

Keep a rattlesnake as pet
Sell both the kidneys on the internet
Eat a tube of superglue
“I wonder what’s this red button do?”

Dumb ways to die, so many dumb ways to die

Dress up like a moose during hunting season
Disturb a nest of wasps for no good reason
Stand on the edge of a train station platform
Drive around the boom gates at a level crossing
Run across the tracks between the platforms
They may not rhyme but they’re quite possibly

Dumbest ways to die ie
Dumbest ways to die
Dumbest ways to die
So many dumb
So many dumb ways to die
 

洗腦歌又點少得當中的佼佼者--韓國

Wonder girls 繼《Nobody》後，《Like this》同樣洗腦。

TOYOTA TV commercial

o mouth lor!!!
this guy is more girlish than me!!!

Redbull Soaprace 2012

3點多去到沙田多石街，多人都爆！看不到盡頭的人海

靖和我迫呀迫，終於走到位於終點的第一排！好正！好多車都好正！亦有好多參賽者用gungnam style 做 background music，腦已洗，'o ba gungname style~~~'

睇住好多kai 車衝過來，好好笑！

 

Maroon 5 Hong Kong Tour 2012

oh, yeah~~~
it's a good good night~~~
今次全場企位，頭半小時由The Cab 開場，再等半小時先到主角出場，由本來企到腳軟想坐地下，最後一直high 到尾。
包圍我和島山的是一堆外國妹妹仔，大家都好hyper，他們一聽前奏就知道歌名，背歌詞熟過背書，我們以前也是這樣呢！

那天，我出席了一個葬禮

活在當下，盡可以盡的努力，未必做到完美，但不會令自己後悔和遺憾。
把握聖靈的感動，不要空想，要付諸行動，否則空餘恨！

那天，我出席了一個葬禮 (上)

那天，我出席了一個葬禮(下)

心碎了，腳痛了

2012年6月3日，劉翔跑出12秒87，平了世界紀錄！


2012年8月7日，劉翔跨勝了。
可能是舊患，可能是壓力，無論如何，見到他這樣，真是心都碎，替他心痛啊！
他的實力無庸置疑的強！意志力更強！我要學習他的堅毅，就算跑不到，都堅持到最後，這是同自己的比賽，對手是自己，最後也只要對自己交待就夠了。

我想做運動，於是我就盡力去做！
白天游泳曬傷了，就去看醫生吧。
改成晚上於室內游泳，臉還是覺得刺刺的。
再改成夜晚跑步，腳被穿慣的波鞋刮損了，身上又因出汗而生紅點。
傷口康復時，難免會癢癢的，不自覺地r 損了。
我是白痴，我把傷口二度傷害，搞到今晚跑不了步，
不過我是不會放棄的！ 我要學劉翔，不會因這些失敗而卻步的！

Olympics 2012

I wish I can watch Olympics everyday! That's one of my favorite programme on TV. Not mention I seldom watch TV or PPS currently. 

Some handsome and muscular guys draw ppl's attention this year, such as Marcel Nguyen. He's from Germany!! 

Well, not really my cup of tea :P His face looks girlish.

The one I'm expecting is Liu Xiang.

Regret that his round 1 Men's 110m hurdles will be held at 1710 HKT. I can't watch the live race in office (crying in my heart)

Maroon 5 Hong Kong Tour 2012

估不到他們會再來！還是這麼快，只隔了一年，又可以見到你們，愛愛愛！！

咦~~~~ 好衰架！係人地出糧個日出碟，唔買都唔得啦~~~~~嘻嘻 :D

Men in black 3, Dark shadows

Movies in May

War horse

Highly not recommend this movie.
劇情一般，但看到動物被勞役，同主人分開，睇到不開心囉

其中一幕講述幸苦耕作的農作物快要收成，怎料一場大風雨把所有都催毀，男主人頓時變得潦倒，十分落莫，並同太太有以下的對話：
Husband: You'll stop loving me, Rose. And I won't blame you when you do.
Wife: Well, I might hate you more, but I'll never love you less.