明白

這幾天，收到好些關心，主要關於返教會
現在有join另一間教會的崇拜和小組，麗禾堂依然是我的家，這點不會改變
礙於一些原因，才暫時到這教會，其實我還有keep住麗禾堂的崇拜和小組
雖然我盡力向友人們解釋，似乎得不到諒解。
我明白大家的關心和擔心，但我對麗禾的委身程度沒有動搖，真有一刻灰到要以死以明志。
於是大家的關心變成「催迫」，期望我快點復原，還在康復中的我要背負現階段難以達到的期望，好有壓力。
心裡著實孤單，打算只與Wilson為朋吧，反正無人明白自已。(Wilson 是 Tom Hanks於電影 'Cast away 劫後重生'中流落荒島，DIY一個排球做朋友)

後來朋友提醒我，其實我是身在福中不知福。
有人不明白我，但仍有一些些能交心的朋友，這已經好難得
而且，那些我認為他們不明白我的人，只是出於好意，就算不明白我的情況，都好正常，反正沒有人100%了解自已，我也沒可能100%了解其他人吧。
於是就釋懷多了^^

Braids

I like braids recently.
Recently, my hair is long and sufficient to make braids. 
Although my hands are not good at tied braids, these styles are very nice. 

Retreat, After Earth, Shin Ting, 小人國4

12 Jun 2013

Glad to have a break in the mid of the week. 
Retreat is always an efficient way to re-charge.
I love all my XXL groupmates.

The only reason for watching 'After Earth' is Will Smith, the gorgeous black guy on earth.
Turn out it's not bad, at least it made me scared for some moment.

15 Jun 2013

I miss you already Shin Ting. You are my godness and my model in all times. 
You guide my life during my ups and downs. I wish I will never forget what you taught us. 
I hope I can be as wise, intelligent, kind and inspiring as you.

16 Jun 2013

First kick-off meeting for our trip in Sept.

The decoration of Initial (Shatin store) is lovely and stylish.
Like all deer stuff :)

My first drama experience with Ching.
What a good start to have 小人國4 as my first drama. Look forward to watch much more in the future.

50 Rules for Dads of Daughters

50 Rules for Dads of Daughters

This is a nice article. 

A Daddy's Letter to His Little Girl

A very touching article that make me almost in tears.

A Daddy's Letter to His Little Girl (About Her Future Husband)

Dear Cutie-Pie,

Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was "How to keep him interested."

It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.

And I got angry.

Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to "keep him interested."

Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul -- in that unshakeable place that isn't rattled by rejection and loss and ego -- that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)

If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.

Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn't need to be keptinterested, because he knows you are interesting:

I don't care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table -- as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can't stop looking.

I don't care if he can't play a bit of golf with me -- as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.

I don't care if he doesn't follow his wallet -- as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.

I don't care if he is strong -- as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.

I couldn't care less how he votes -- as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.

I don't care about the color of his skin -- as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.

I don't care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion -- as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.

In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:

You.

Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to "keep him interested" is to be you.

Your eternally interested guy,

Daddy

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This post is, of course, dedicated to my daughter, my Cutie-Pie. But I also want to dedicate it beyond her.

I wrote it for my wife, who has courageously held on to her sense of worth and has always held me accountable to being that kind of "boy."

I wrote it for every grown woman I have met inside and outside of my therapy office -- the women who have never known this voice of a Daddy.

And I wrote it for the generation of boys-becoming-men who need to be reminded of what is really important -- my little girl finding a loving, lifelong companion is dependent upon at least one of you figuring this out. I'm praying for you.

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進擊的巨人

上一套追看的動畫，已是鋼之鍊金術師，還是hunter?
進擊的巨人漫畫還在連載中，動畫只出到第八集，每集20分鐘，劇情緊湊，
第一次看完，我緊張到發惡夢，實在太好看太刺激了！

Friends

I have some great friends. 

This friend was worrying about my situation, then helped me to find someone to sort it out. When I was in the middle of the 'battle', this friend didn't mind waiting outside and ready to be by my side anytime.

That friend understood my ridiculous request but didn't punish me and embrace my weakness instead.

Another friend came out and accompanied me walking in the park, just because of a out-of-a-sudden message. 

I met another group of friends. They didn't ask me why I appeared there, but welcome such a new comer like me to enter their crew.