"love them anyway"

突然想到，我有時候（or 大部份時候）討厭我爸，我可以怎樣？有一把聲音說：「love them anyway」我記得我看過這。google後發現有2 個version，一個來自德蘭修女，另一個是 Dr. Kent M. Keith，誰是 the original 無謂深究。
這是德蘭修女的版本：

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies.
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you.
Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight.
Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten.
Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough.
Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

2個版本參考這裡。